My ex boyfriend used to watch alot of porn. I mean, not like, an EXCESSIVE amount, but he would watch porn probably 4-5 times a week. [I know that sounds like a lot, but hey, atleast he only did it once, and at night] I used to think it was normal, because, he was my first real boyfriend, and he taught me alot about guys, and relationships, and just life in general. So in our two and a half year relationship, I thought all guys watched porn pretty much every night, and all guys spent their alone time with "Palmela Anderson".
But when my guy friends and I would jokingly talk about porn, or how much time they spend with "Palmela", they told me that they probably only did it on average, about 3 times a week. Now, at first, I was like, "No way, you guys are lying. I'm not going to judge you, c'mon, tell me for real." But they were all dead serious. When asked why, they said that they either "got some" so they didn't need too much "alone time", or that they simply didn't have the time.
So, my question is, how often is normal...? Should I have been worried that my [at the time] boyfriend was spending so much time watching porn? Or...were those guy friends of mine just lying?
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